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Friday 20 March 2020

Practice Love, Not Fear


Covid-19 is not something we can personally ‘control’ and so it creates fear – fear of the unknown, fear of consequences, fear of deprivation and suffering.

These are strange times we are currently living in and many people have been overtaken with fear and panic.  There is panic buying in the supermarkets, with people fighting over toilet paper and people buying more than they need.  There is fear in people’s hearts about what may befall them, and this is especially true for the elderly and the health-compromised.

Snapdragons and Lavender

A certain amount of fear is healthy and a natural reaction to any situation that could potentially cause us harm.  It is a signal that we should remove ourselves from the situation or take steps to ensure our safety.  But when fear takes over it becomes unreasonable and prevents rational thinking and planning.


Panic has fear as its root cause.  People want to know they are safe and can care for themselves and their families.  There is a fine line between panic buying and reasonably wanting to provide for your family in times of hardship.

Some type of aloe, I think

Many people are aware of the Law of Attraction, which states that what you concentrate on most is what will happen in your life.  It doesn’t always work, as time and chance can happen to anyone, but it can affect how you respond to uncontrollable events.   

Imagine if we replaced fear with love.  Instead of grabbing supermarket items off other people, we would all be taking only our reasonable share and leaving plenty for others (a lot of supermarkets have now introduced rationing to force this principle into action).

Imagine if we all stopped fearing for ourselves in this pandemic and began to care more for those around us.  We wouldn’t see young party-goers on TV saying they didn’t care if they got sick because they were young and would get over it – they would have more concern about spreading the virus to others.

Agapanthus

Fear is a horrible emotion to suffer from long-term.  It causes worry and depression and a feeling of things being totally out of hand.  If we could turn it around and practice love/joy, to concentrate on good things instead of bad, then we would find more happiness in our daily lives and could be rationally prepared for when things go wrong.

I think what I am trying to say is that we need to understand that there is a crisis occurring in our communities and we need to be prepared on a practical basis.  This should not be driven by a fear of the unknown, but by a recognition that we should be responsible in caring for ourselves.

Sunset after a storm (2007)

Let’s concentrate on good things in our lives so we can create more good things.  Enjoy the beauty of the weather (yes, even the rain and snow), take time to really look at and appreciate the natural world around us, sit and watch the sun as it sets (or rises), watch comedies and funny movies, read light-hearted books, smile at each other, and use modern technology to stay in touch with friends and family.

We had a few showers here this morning, but now the sun is shining and I thought a couple of colourful photos might help on the cheerfulness front. 
Margaret J



LINKED TO Skywatch Friday

29 comments:

  1. the sunset you shared us after the storm is just rightful at this moment. That no matter how strong this storm that we all are in, there's always an end to it and hope for a beautiful colorful sky after it.

    Stay Safe!

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    1. You are so right. All things have their time and pass on, and we must look forward to happy new beginnings :)

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  2. That sunset picture is truly amazing!!
    What's not so amazing is the ignorant attitude of those who 'don't care if they get sick because they'll get over it'. I know the young feel invincible but still!!!
    We're still staying close to home and getting all sorts of little projects done.
    Keep well.

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    1. That young guy's attitude really got to me. He was interviewed on TV after an unlawful party gathering.
      Doing home projects is a great way to fill time at home and the results are so satisfying.
      I am glad you liked the sunset. The colours were like that for real, and it hasn't been touched up or anything.

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  3. Well said, fear doesn't really solve anything, and leads to lots of other things, cruelty and greed among other things.

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  4. We decided to do our supermarket shop a day early this week because of what we had heard. It wasn't too bad but there was an elderly lady looking quite upset as there was NO FLOUR at all. I went back later to get some more cat food (my elderly cat has got very fussy and ate the new one I bought this morning so I wanted more) and there was a younger lady talking to the boss (Eric Rush) who was stacking toilet paper. She had come in for flour and yeast to make something for her children's tea and there was neither.

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    1. I never thought of the supermarkets running out of such a basic as flour, especially when so many people don't appear to do much cooking these days. I wonder if it is more of a supply issue than one of demand? I know here that one local supermarket's deliveries are running about 36 hours behind schedule because high demand has disrupted their regular supply chain.

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  5. Well written, Margaret, and quite profound. The only place I have seen where panic buying has had a noticeable effect has been at our local liquor store where the shelves were half empty and many wines were completely sold out, especially the low to mid priced range. Time to try something new, I suppose.

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    1. I guess for some people drowning their sorrows is more important than feeding the body - or cleaning their nether regions! :)

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  6. Our world was a place of plenty, you wanted it you got it,I totally agree with your post, our local shops are not nice places whilst they have bread and milk. We can do without both, but young families need these things. I did get bread and milk for my daughters family, but I hope not to go to the shops again for a while.

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    1. I had to make a dash last night to buy some milk, but am hoping to generally avoid all shops now.

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  7. Hello, So true! We all need to think of others, we are seeing empty shelves here too. People are panicking. Your photos are lovely, beautiful sunset. Happy Skywatching! Stay safe and healthy! Enjoy your day and weekend ahead.

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    1. Glad you liked the photos. I feel we need to concentrate on good/pretty/happy things in our lives at the moment.

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  8. Wise words Margaret. The liquor store here was overrun when the government said it was closing. They’ve changed their minds since the threat of alcohol withdrawal is a health issue too.

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    1. As far as I am aware, our liquor stores are doing fine - but then I haven't visited one recently so I am not entirely sure about that!

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  9. Stay safe! Carry on as best we can thinking positive although the news is full of negative:(

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    1. We can only do the best we can. Sometimes it is hard to see the positive but it is always there if we want to find it.

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  10. You said this well...so far, where I have been, everybody has been easy going, and even teasing. But the one guy at our local grocery said people had got hateful with him.

    I am enjoying staying home and not getting out to go somewhere every single morn. I suppose by the time this is over, I will be glad to go have breakfast, but right now I am going to enjoy it.

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    1. I think you have the right attitude Rose. We need to look for the simple pleasures we can enjoy every day.

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  11. Good post. I personally don't understand the mass panic, we produce most of what we sell in supermarkets so boggles my mind why people are stockpiling. Hopefully it will all be over soon.

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  12. Wonderful message to practice love, not fear. I still remember the old days (make love, not war)... similar message, but I think fear is driving a lot of behavior these day. By the way, that's a spectacular sky!

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    1. Oh yes, I remember those days of making love and not war! :))

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  13. Lovely photo and sentiments. Sadly there are still a lot out their doing their damnedest to practice fear and hate as I have just experienced. Very sad individuals who obviously haven nothing better in their lives to do than to try and make others miserable.

    Take care, stay safe and keep thinking positive thoughts.

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    1. I'm sorry to hear about your experience. Some people are drowning in so much misery, but it is a pity that they feel they have to share it with others, to make others as unhappy as themselves. Don't let them ruin your day. Hugz, Mxx

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  14. I'm a little late reading blog posts but I thought you encapsulated the present situation perfectly. I hope that New Zealand in general and you in particular come through this.

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