My husband’s elder sister and husband have now been married
for sixty years, so yesterday I attended the lunch they had to celebrate their
diamond wedding anniversary.
The function was held at the St Kilda Café in Cambridge,
where the staff and chef did themselves proud, and then several of us went back
to the house for the evening.
There was a table of memorabilia that included photos of the
wedding, as well as congratulatory cards from Her Majesty Queen Elizabeth II, our
Governor General Dame Patsy Reddy, New Zealand’s Prime Minister Jacinda
Ardern, and the parliamentary Minister for Seniors Tracey Martin. These cards are not sent automatically but
must be applied for, which the family had done, to honour this special
occasion.
I was amazed that the wedding dress was still in existence after
all these years. It had been folded up
and placed in a small suitcase, and then never touched again!
The dress was made of heavy satin with a lace upper bodice decorated
with tiny diamonds, and was made by the bride’s mother-in-law. The head-dress was used to hold a veil in
place. The bridesmaid’s dresses were a
vivid fuchsia pink, with a very large bow across the front bodice and another
across the derrière, but none have survived the years.
I checked on my new vegetable garden this morning and was
happy to see the seedlings all have their heads up. The new lawn beside the garden is almost
ready for sowing and will look good when it grows.
I have planted rhubarb, spring onions, celery, spinach,
silver beet (chard), mini cauliflowers, mini broccoli, mini cabbage (this is
how they can be planted so close together), garlic chives and lettuce.
I am taking advantage of the hollow concrete blocks that
form the wall and planting in them as well.
Late morning I went shopping (again!) and came home with an
electric omelette maker (I will have to write about that another time) and
topped up our supply of fresh vegetables.
The supermarket was chaotic, with the carpark being full and
the shop packed with people. No
one-metre clearance zone around people here!
I believe crowds like this often happen over the weekend, but it was
obvious in the supermarket that things had been moved around in an effort to
hide the large gaps on some shelves. It
is becoming difficult to tell when people are just responsibly stocking up or
simply panic buying.
I really enjoyed catching up with everyone yesterday,
including family who had come over from Australia. Many people refrained from the traditional
hug-greeting (because of Covid-19), which was understandable considering many
of the guests were in their 70s and 80s and some already have major health
issues. I wonder how long it will be
before we are no longer able to even gather together like this?
Margaret.
That is a lovely wedding gown and how wonderful it survived for 60 years, and that there was a celebration of the 60 year anniversary.
ReplyDeleteSounds like the celebration was a success. It's always nice to catch up with old friends and relatives one hasn't seen for a while.
ReplyDeleteImagine! The wedding dress hadn't even been taken out in all the years. It certainly had a lovely bodice with the diamonds sewn on. We are just 3 1/2 years away from our 60th. Hard to believe that we're that old :)
So will the veggies that you plant in your garden now be ready to eat this year? The whole garden area looks so neat and organized. I like the lettuce in the concrete blocks. Good idea.
On the subject of the mad rush to buy up quantities of 'stuff' I do wonder if by next weekend people will either have run out of money or space to pile all their purchases and maybe shopping will once again be more sane.
Because our winters are so mild (we never have snow except on rare occasions when there will be a very light dusting that soon disappears) the vegetables will keep growing. We should be eating things within a couple of months, definitely by spring.
DeleteHow fantastic that you have been married for that length of time. Well done, you two! :) Mxx
Lovely wedding dress and it hasn't dated.
ReplyDeleteThe wedding dress looks very regal. Good luck with the garden.
ReplyDeleteI haven’t seen too many dresses from sixty years ago. A beauty indeed.
ReplyDeleteThe anti virus measures are ramping up here too.
I love how there are so many woman in leadership positions in New Zealand! Bravo!
I hadn't really noticed, but yes we do have several women in prominent leadership positions in our country - all four of those cards were from women!
DeleteHello Mam, I came across your blog and i could not stop reading it.Very interesting blog, keep it up.
ReplyDeleteRegards
Neermala from Réunion island
Welcome :)
DeleteI am glad you have enjoyed my blog, and hope to see you visit again.
COVID 19 is affecting everything isn't it? We were just away for the weekend - eleven people in all - and I wondering whether that was wise. Nothing to be done now in any event.
ReplyDeleteI think the virus is going to have to go through every community at some stage, whatever we do. The precautions being taken are only going to help manage how fast it spreads (which will help the health system); I don't think they will be able to stop it spreading.
DeleteCongratulations to your sister-in-law and her husband...60 yrs. is a long time! That dress is a beauty....I bet it was beautiful when in use.
ReplyDeleteI like your garden! I was hoping to put out a little something this year but it may not get done!
What a lovely dress! It is very similar to my Moms dress she and Dad will be married 70 years in the Fall. It was nice you could attend the celebration! Yes virus news is not good here either. They are closing schools now.
ReplyDeleteWow, seventy years! That will be worthy of a great family celebration :)
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